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SERMONS
The
Eighteenth Sunday After Pentecost
October 12, 2003
A friend
of mine experienced an intervention recently. An intervention is
a technique used by those working with people with problems with
addictions: addictions to alcohol, to drugs, or to any other substance
or activity. In an intervention family or close friends of the person
sit down with him and talk to him about his behavior. And about
what effects his behavior is having on their lives. The intention
of an intervention is to confront the person with a problem he may
be denying, in the hope that he will agree to treatment.
There
are two important characteristics of interventions. First, the people
doing the intervention must be close to, and care for, the person
being confronted. And second, there is no judgment involved. The
interveners talk about the behavior they have observed and the effects
they have observed. But they are careful not to label the person
as bad.
Interventions
are difficult. I am glad I was not involved in this one. It can
be difficult to speak the truth, for the truth is sometimes unpleasant.
It may not be what we want to hear.
It
can be even more difficult to speak the truth in love, to speak
it without judgment. When I am in one of my more self-righteous
moods, I can speak the truth. But when I occupy my moral high ground
and stand in judgment of those below me, the truth I speak is cold
and unloving. And its fruit is bitterness and resentment.
Speaking
the truth in love to those we love can be difficult and painful.
Hearing that truth can also be painful.
In
today's gospel a man runs up to Jesus and kneels before him. "What
must I do," he asks, "to inherit eternal life?"
Jesus
reminds him of the commandments. "I have kept all of these," says
the man.
"There
is one thing more," says Jesus. "Go, sell what you own and give
the money to the poor. Then come and follow me." And the man, shocked,
goes away grieving, for he has many possessions.
It
is so easy to judge this man. A rich man, probably made his money
by cheating the poor. Not only rich, but self-righteous. I have
kept all of the commandments since my youth, he says. Sure. So easy
to judge.
But
Jesus does not judge. Rather, Mark tells us, Jesus loves the man.
Jesus' directions are given, not out of judgment, but out of love.
The man's wealth, Jesus perceives, is the one thing that stands
between him and God. So Jesus tells him to get rid of his possessions.
It
is not surprising that the man's possessions are what stand between
him and God. There is not anything wrong with having stuff. As Robert
Capon reminds us. God made stuff, loves stuff, and has more of it
than anyone. Possessions in themselves are not bad. But it is so
easy to look to our possessions for our security. After all, isn't
our goal "Financial Security"?
I doubt
that there are many of us here today who consider ourselves to be
really wealthy. Most of us, I suspect, feel as if we are just barely
getting by.
And
yet-how many of you don't have a place to sleep tonight? How many
of you will have nothing to eat today? How many of you own only
the clothes you are wearing right now?
I have
never been really hungry in my life. Millions of people around the
world go to bed really hungry every day. I have never had to wonder
if I would be able to find anything to eat. Ten thousand people
will die today of starvation.
By
the world's standards, we are rich. The richest nation that has
ever existed. With wealth comes responsibility. The responsibility
to use that wealth faithfully, as stewards, in accordance with God's
will.
It
is much easier to consider ourselves poor; or at least barely getting
by. It relieves us of the responsibility of sharing what we possess.
But it also binds us. We become slaves to our possessions. They
become idols. They stand between us and God.
Sometimes
the truth is painful. It can be difficult to hear. But the truth
spoken in love can be life giving. When we are able to hear it and
respond to it we find freedom. The freedom of sons and daughters
of God. And the joy of the kingdom of heaven.
David
Christian
The Chapel of the Cross
Madison, Mississippi
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